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Mitayu Radik's avatar

Beautifully written👌I really enjoyed reading it! The beauty of it is that we can always hope for positive change for ourselves and the world. We often think about who we are. We create an image of ourselves and of others in our minds. The essential change happens when we stay in the present moment without thoughts for a while. Everything in this reality, including us, changes over time. When we stop our thoughts and look inside ourselves, we realize that our true intentions matter most: Compassion, love, and kindness. You will naturally discover all of these things when you pay full attention to pure awareness in the present moment.

Precious Samuel's avatar

These are questions I feel too insecure to answer. I'll try to be honest and actually do this

becoming that girl's avatar

remember, you don’t have to post it, it can be for your eyes only, but just be honest with yourself :)

Rebuild And Rise By Design's avatar

This is such a healthy way to get to know yourself.

And just from reading this, you don’t sound lost at all. You sound aware. Thoughtful. Intentional.

The intensity in your love isn’t “too much.” It’s just not meant for everyone. The right people won’t leave because you love deeply — they’ll feel protected by it.

You’re building yourself on purpose. That’s powerful at any age, especially 21.

Keep asking yourself questions like this. That’s how you stay aligned with who you’re becoming.

becoming that girl's avatar

i really appreciate that :) and i agree, when i started just being myself and letting people come and go as they wished, it helped me save my energy and meet amazing people in the process :)

Daddy’s Fat One🤭✨'s avatar

Who are youuuu???😳

You literally just told me who I am!

Oh my goodness!😱

Thank youuuu so much!🥹❤️

becoming that girl's avatar

haha, don’t tell anyone but i’m a psychic 😏

Daddy’s Fat One🤭✨'s avatar

Your secret is safe with me🫢🤭🔮

Sahar's avatar

Hi- I’m just starting out. Trying to build something honest — a space for people growing without having to burn their whole lives down to do it. Subscribed 🤍

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lets connect!

Velvet & Ink's avatar

This was so beautifully written.

DebbieF's avatar

Beautifully written. I enjoyed reading this. I'm that girl. It took me a long time to find her though because I was living in that world of fakeness. But it wasn't until I discovered who I really was and not afraid to show it that I became fulfilled. Authenticity trumps everything

Whether people agree with you or not.

becoming that girl's avatar

i’m glad you found her :)

Eesha's avatar

Loved reading this. So empowering! We are so much more than the labels life gives us.

becoming that girl's avatar

i agree! thanks for reading!

Neme's avatar

This is a heart piece👌

Peace 🤍's avatar

I'm trying to find myself and get to know myself self better I'll definitely try to answer these questions thank you

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im glad i could help :)

AlinaC's avatar

Wonderful questions, I need to sit with myself and answer them one day!

Lens Aura's avatar

This questions are really a lot to me but I'm glad I will answer to really know myself.

becoming that girl's avatar

i’m glad you’re being honest with yourself, it takes a lot of strength :)

Marisa Liberti's avatar

We should all be asking these questions. I would have loved to have answered the same question at different times in my life and then discovering how I have changed over the years. Perhaps diaries are for that purpose.

becoming that girl's avatar

thats such a great idea!! i’ll be doing that as well :)

Scarlet Mercy's avatar

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 I need to ask myself these questions and answer them honestly!

becoming that girl's avatar

you should! it really puts things in perspective!

Miss Olivia's avatar

💛💛💛

Solène Noir's avatar

this was so heartwarming to read

becoming that girl's avatar

thanks for reading!!